We’ve all probably experienced those tantrums that seem to make no sense or come out of nowhere. The infuriating refusals to do simple things, or not do things, in response to very reasonable requests from us parents. “No, I will NOT go put that crayon away!” (maybe even followed by throwing a few more crayons on the ground for good measure). “I am NOT getting dressed…
In my opinion, the cornerstone of effective, loving, positive parenting is respect. I think we’ve all heard the antiquated view that children should be seen and not heard. But would that ever hold water for adults? No way. As adults, we rightfully feel entitled to have and express opinions and thoughts, important or trivial. Why should it be any different for our children? It shouldn’t, which is why…